Hey Tyler.
thanks for the review! I was really proud of how that deleted scene worked, even though it didn't work for the overall edit which is why I wanted it included.
Regarding the order, I do agree that pushing the missile back would have been nice from a pacing standpoint, and it was very much considered. This edit went through several iterations and from a pacing and flow standpoint I had some versions that I think were definitely improvements when you looked at it without paying attention to detail, unfortunately these versions created continuity errors. There was simply no satisfying way to make the missile sequence happen by itself without being attached his heroic coming out party.
In one version I tried having the rescue of Lois be his coming out party by itself with no other heroic events, and then after the date he goes out and does more heroics which culminate in the missile sequence. From a flow stand point I loved this version, however because all of his heroic efforts involve people not having any idea who he was, it created a continuity error that was too big to tolerate. Additionally, I had a cut where he hurled the missile into space which then drifts through space while we then return to Earth. Later it cut back to the missile as it collided with the Phantom Zone. This was just too much of a "WTF? Oh, yeah, forgot about that" moment. Given the footage available, this was, in our opinion the best compromise, which also was more in line with Jelio's initial roughcut.
Regarding 'Lex Luthor!" I know Jelio is going to be jumping up and down about this one because he lobbied really hard to remove it. It is in for two reasons. One, we the audiance haven't met Lex, but if he's the world's greatest criminal mind, if he is 'the best there is' so good in fact that he was able to figure out where Superman lives, then the world knows him. This is a comic book world after all with larger than life bad guys. Lois Lane would certainly know about the worlds greatest criminal mastermind, even if we just met him.
The second reason is more practical. There is simply no way to cut it out with all the other pieces we cut. There is a lot of camp and silliness that we removed which was far more useless "this is the son of Jor-El?" Jimmy taking pictures of Nom, Lois talking back to Ursa, all of these really needed to be moved, but without those, there is no way to cut Lois line because the scene before that is Lex walking in, and then Lex responding. I could find no satisfying way to cut her line and keep the flow of the scene working well.
Sadly I never noticed the 3 repeated frames of the chopper or I'd have cut them. Perhaps in 1.5
Anyhow, I'm glad that you enjoyed it overall and thank you for the review!!
EDT: Oh, one last comment, the diner scene was just for fun. Often times you see credits roll and then they pause to show you something some quick snippet. This was simply a nod to that type of close. We wanted to include that footage just for fun. I placed it far enough back in the credits that I felt it would be just a humorous addition and not taken as the literal end of the movie.