Handman said:
It's been three months since I cut contact with all of my friends, specifically her. I'm still sad about it, and all I've been doing is sitting around the house trying to not mope about it. I don't know what to do, but I'm getting close to trying to just talk to her again. This would be a mistake, probably. I'm just not sure what to do.
you are only entering the most heart breaking of social experiments.
sever all communications with your friends and see which ones reach out to you to see what's going on.
those that do, the one's that noticed you disappeared, are the keepers.
the others. you've been a friend of convenience. a step above casual acquaintance. like a coworker you never talk to outside work.
i've been down this path before. i learned i have two friends.
the rest of them. i was out of sight, out of mind.
the hardest part is not reaching out. i wanted to then thought, why is no one contacting me?
fill your time learning something new and useful. learn guitar or another language.
myself, i've been slowly working on a Duck Tales trilogy. i might even release it here.
stay strong, bruv.