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Ok. let me make this clearer: America is not the world.
What Americans find offensive is not necessarily what other people find offensive (and vice versa).
So before you leap to conclusions about people, particularly when they are second or third language English speakers, take a moment to consider they might not be saying what you think they are saying or what you are hearing them saying.
This phrase "when you use a phrase that has obvious sexist connotations (no matter if you feel that way or not)" is exactly my point. It has obvious sexist connotations FOR YOU IN YOUR CULTURE. It doesn't in mine. It doesn't in Masimiro's. We're not American.
But it's cool that you expressed that. Now we know. Now Masimiro knows.
I'm just pointing out that to leap to wild accusations of misogyny to a Turkish guy because he doesn't understand that in American culture the term "Mary Sue " is highly loaded and considered sexist is - dare I say it - culturally imperialist. (sorry couldn't resist. ;-) )
What Americans find offensive is not necessarily what other people find offensive (and vice versa).
So before you leap to conclusions about people, particularly when they are second or third language English speakers, take a moment to consider they might not be saying what you think they are saying or what you are hearing them saying.
This phrase "when you use a phrase that has obvious sexist connotations (no matter if you feel that way or not)" is exactly my point. It has obvious sexist connotations FOR YOU IN YOUR CULTURE. It doesn't in mine. It doesn't in Masimiro's. We're not American.
But it's cool that you expressed that. Now we know. Now Masimiro knows.
I'm just pointing out that to leap to wild accusations of misogyny to a Turkish guy because he doesn't understand that in American culture the term "Mary Sue " is highly loaded and considered sexist is - dare I say it - culturally imperialist. (sorry couldn't resist. ;-) )